Wednesday, May 20, 2009


Here I was yesterday thinking that I must have an incredible knack to just piss people off and wondering if I felt bad about that or not. Well, I don't. I've come to realize that I can get pretty nasty if I get pushed hard enough, but for the most part I've just decided that everyone can whatever with their life, but I've just to stopped playing the fake games that everyone else plays. I'm sick of blowing smoke and kissing ass so that I just don't rock the boat. How fitting that the 70-something, 4'10", petite grandma would send me this. She knows. She's the sweetest thing you'll ever meet but she's had the same policy since long before I was on this Earth.


When I stand up for myself and my beliefs,
They call me a

When I stand up for those I love,
They call me a

When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts
Or do things my own way, they call me a bitch.

Being a bitch
Means I won't compromise what's in my heart.
It means I live my life MY way.
It means I won't allow anyone to step on me.

When I refuse to
Tolerate injustice and speak against it,
I am defined as a Bitch.

The same thing happens when I take time for myself instead of being everyone's maid, or when I act a little selfish.

It means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won't become anyone else's idea of what they think I "should" be.

I am outspoken, opinionated and determined..I want what I want and there is nothing wrong with that!
So try to stomp on me, just try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me.
You won't succeed..
If that makes me a bitch ,so be it. I embrace the title and am proud to bear it.

B - Babe
I - In
T - Total
C - Control of
H - Herself

B = Beautiful
I = Intelligent
T = Talented
C = Charming
H = Hell of a Woman

B = Beautiful
I = Individual
T = That
C = Can
H = Handle "anything"


  1. love love love this!! you are a fab bitch and so am I hahaha

  2. And it had to the teabag quote to go with this??? ugh.